Did you really say that?

So, I have noticed something that I feel should be brought up. I know that when you get mad at someone and are later telling the story to a friend you say something like, "Then I was like ". Then the person you are speaking to asks "Did you really say that?"

Lets take a second to think about this. When you ask a person "Did you really say that?" you are really saying "HA! you would never say that and now I am going to call you out!"

So, back to the other persons shoes. No, I did not say that! Would I ever say something like that? Did I grow a six pack over night that I dont know about? Does my well being as a person not matter to you? No I didnt say that. If I had I would not still be mad about the situation...instead I would be saying something along the lines of, "OMG! Guess what I said to ".

So, in the future if someone approaches you about the subject instead of questioning the person, just jump in and take the opportunity to tak about them. Also remember that in that persons situation you would do the same.

So, this is all for tonight. Its late and im tired! I have also decided that presenting you with too much information in one day may be overwhelming. Ill give you time to digest this and we can move on to the next subject. So take the time to practice this, and I never want to here, "Did you really say that?" again!

Just sharing the truth,

Jessica